Showing posts with label starting over. Show all posts
Showing posts with label starting over. Show all posts

Thursday, June 21, 2012

3 Easy Steps to Getting a Mortgage

Examine your finances and shop around before you apply for a mortgage. Shopping for a mortgage is the first step toward owning a home and perhaps the most daunting, especially if you are not prepared.

Once a simple task that meant comparing fixed rates from among perhaps a dozen or fewer savings and loan companies, the mortgage hunt today is like finding your way through a maze.

There are dozens of loan types and hundreds of loan programs available through thousands of mortgage brokers, bankers, lenders, finance companies, credit unions and even stock brokerage firms.

Contrary to popular belief, finding a mortgage doesn't begin with an application.

Education is a better first choice. Mortgage information sources are as vast as the number of mortgages available: Web sites, topical newspaper articles, mortgage books, consumer seminars and workshops, financial planners, real estate agents, mortgage brokers and lenders are all available to assist you along the way.

First and foremost, you must determine how your mortgage payment will fit your current budget and, to some extent, your future obligations 15 to 30 years down the road.

If you discover too late that you can't afford your mortgage, you'll not only face the possibility of losing the roof over your head, but you could also damage your ability to purchase a home in the future.

Step 1: Examine Your Finances


If you can afford to buy a home, you must then determine how much mortgage you can afford.

Lenders are apt to put your loan application in the best light and qualify you for as much as they are willing to lend, which can be more than you can afford.

It's up to you to take stock of your income and expenses, both current and projected, to determine what you can comfortably manage each month. Along with your mortgage payment, don't forget related insurance, taxes, homeowner association dues and any other costs rolled into the mortgage payment.

Step 2: Shop for a Loan


When you are ready to shop for a loan you have two basic types of mortgage stores to shop from: direct lenders and mortgage brokers.

Direct lenders have money to lend. They make the final decision on your application. Lenders have a limited number of in-house loans available.

Mortgage brokers are intermediaries who, like you, have many lenders from which to choose. Brokers shop from many lenders, each with their own offering of loans.

If you have special financing needs and can't find a lender to suit them, an experienced broker may be able to ferret out the loan you need. Mortgage brokers, however, are paid with a slice of the amount you borrow - some more than others, so it pays to compare rates. Internet brokers today perhaps receive the smallest cut, sometimes none at all, and can prove to be a real bargain.

Along with shopping the source, you'll also have to shop for loan costs, including the interest rate, broker fees, points (a point is an amount paid to the lender and is charged at one percent of the amount you borrow), prepayment penalties, loan term, application fees, credit report fee, appraisal and a host of others.

Step 3: Apply for a Loan


The application process is the easy part - provided you've gathered the documents necessary to prove claims you make on the application.

The application will ask for information about your job tenure, employment stability, income, your assets (property, cars, bank accounts and investments) and your liabilities (auto loans, installment loans, mortgages, credit-card debt, household expenses and others).

The lender will run a credit check to determine your credit status, but you'll have to supply additional documentation including paycheck stubs, bank account statements, tax returns, investment earnings reports, rental agreements, divorce decrees, proof of insurance and other documentation. A lender that deems you creditworthy will likely hire a professional appraiser to make sure the value of the home you are about to buy is truly worth your loan amount.

Looking to Buy a home? Call for a face to face meeting and to learn about our V.I.P. program for buyers.

Noemi Cardoso
RE/MAX Welcome Home
Serving Westport, Dartmouth, Fall River, MA
Little Compton,Tiverton, RI and surrounding towns.
www.DistinctiveHomes-NE.com

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

What are you made of?

If you've read my blogs last year you know that 2010 was not the best of my years. Many things  have happened. Things that brought me to the ground, yes, I literally mean to the ground, flat, broken, hurt, so powerless for even lift my own head for a long while. My heart was broken into tiny pieces over and over again by differrent people in a period of 6 months. Broken by people I believed were friends; by people I thought would be here for the long haul; broken by the closest of the family I thought I had and by someone I had deep feelings for. I've realized that I'm not as wise as I thought I was. That even at almost 50 I am still a mere student on this process we call life. I realized that I was still making the same mistakes of putting my trust and love into people who didn't know what to do with it. Making them a priority in my life when I was not more than an option in theirs.

I love people, always did. The thought that good ones are, sometimes, around, gives me hope and persistence on keeping on looking and trusting that I'll find them and add to the ones who are already here. For every new person I meet, I give them the benefit of a fresh start; no grudges from previous experiences; no past memories are allowed to taint this new possible kindred soul; they are given a clean blank slate to start  fresh; there are no comparisons or expectations of disillusions or disappointments.

Some might say that's where I'm wrong. And I do understand their point. However, I think if I get into a new relationship, either be a friendship or romantic, with a bucket full of past experiences, memories, disappointments and mistakes made by myself and others, I am jeopardizing this new relationship from the beginning. I will be expecting them, and me, to fail. I am not in any moment saying that we shouldn't pay attention to signs and keep past experiences as lessons to be remembered, but assuming we know what is going to happen and to bring those past experiences into a new relationship  might be the bigger mistake yet.

Anyhow, with all that has happened, I kept trying to get up, only to have the next person come and smash the pieces I had just put back together right back into the ground, to a point I chose to withdrawn myself from people as a defense. I needed time to heal the pain and put the pieces left back together, let the wound heal and allow me to move forward.

I know it'll never be the same, I can see the scars and the shape of my heart is forever changed. Lost friends and loved ones still can be met and greeted, they are somehow still loved, maybe more for the memories of them than for themselves, but the trust is forever gone.

I am a gardener, a beginner at it, but non or less a gardener. It relaxes my mind and helps me focus on something pleasant. I can feel the energy and power of the dirt between my fingers, the evolution of a simple seed into an exquisite flower always fascinated me. This simple hobby has taught me tales of transformation, caring, possibilities, planning, attention to details and it's something I can dive into with all my passion. If I do all things right I will have, without a doubt, a beautiful garden (or potted flowers in my case). Well on dealing with my flowers I've learned that, in many cases, in order to flourish stronger, a flower has to have few twigs cut, old flowers removed, the soil has to be fertilized and watered - not too much, not too little, with balance - some drastic measures are also required sometimes, such as ripping them from the solid ground, splitting it into parts to allow it to grow stronger, multiply  and became even more stronger and more beautiful.  

On practicing this little hobby, away from most of the people I knew, in the silence of my little garden, listening to my favorite songs, alone with my thoughts and imerged in a spirit of reflection, I re-discovered myself. Like a morning glory reaches out, stretching for the first rays of sun, I can see my twigs stretching out and reaching out of myself.

As I sit here on the deck, enjoying the birth of yet another brand new day, sipping my coffee, looking over this magnificent ocean that far away meets with the blue skies on the horizon, feeling the sun warming up my body, I see a hawk hovering over the beach, hunting for her breakfast, and I wonder for a second if it's the same one who comes at the end of fall to sit on my deck once in a while, birds singing greeting the world and a gentle breeze - which maybe a preface to fall - coming to murmur "good morning" in my ears.

While my heart is completely submerse in the simplicity of this moment, a quote I've read a while back  comes to mind  -“A hard fall means a high bounce…if you’re made of the right material.” and I realize that, after all I am made of the right material, and I am bouncing high!

Life's simple now, but oh, so good, and I am ready to start it over.

Have a Happy Wednesday!                                         

 

Noemi Cardoso 08/24/2011